Dealing with Common Behaviors

As much as we love our furry friends, let's face it - sometimes they can exhibit behaviors that are not so lovable. But don't worry, it's completely normal for dogs to have some less than desirable behaviors. In this chapter, we'll cover how to handle some of the most common behaviors and how to help your new best friend become the well-behaved companion you've always dreamed of.

Separation Anxiety

Your dog loves spending time with you and can become incredibly attached. But when you have to leave them alone, it can often lead to separation anxiety. This can manifest in behaviors such as excessive barking, destructive chewing, and even accidents in the house. To help your dog cope with separation anxiety, there are several things you can try.

One of the best ways to prevent separation anxiety in the first place is to make sure your dog gets plenty of exercise and mental stimulation before you leave. This can tire them out and make them less likely to become anxious. You can also try leaving a shirt or other item of clothing with your scent for your dog to snuggle with while you're away. Another helpful tactic is to desensitize your dog to your leaving routine by practicing short absences and gradually increasing the time you're away.

If your dog does exhibit separation anxiety, it's important not to scold or punish them. This will only make the behavior worse. Instead, try to remain calm and give your dog a safe and comfortable space to be alone. There are also natural remedies and products, such as calming sprays or diffusers, that can help alleviate anxiety.

Chewing and Destructive Behavior

Dogs love to chew. It's a natural behavior that helps keep their teeth clean and their minds occupied. However, it can become a problem when your dog starts chewing on things they're not supposed to. This behavior can be especially destructive if your dog is a puppy or left alone for long periods.

To prevent destructive chewing, it's essential to provide your dog with plenty of appropriate chew toys and to supervise them while they're playing with them. If you catch your dog chewing on something they shouldn't be, calmly redirect them to their toys and praise them when they chew on those instead. It's also a good idea to restrict your dog's access to certain areas or objects if they tend to chew on them.

If your dog does have a chewing habit, it's important to determine the cause. Boredom, anxiety, and even health issues can all contribute to destructive chewing. Addressing the root cause can help eliminate the behavior. And remember, never punish your dog for chewing - they're only doing what comes naturally to them.

Aggression Towards People or Other Animals

Aggression is a serious issue that should be addressed as soon as possible. If your dog displays aggression towards people or other animals, it's essential to understand the underlying cause. It could be due to fear, lack of socialization, pain, or even a learned behavior. It's crucial to rule out any potential health problems before addressing the behavior.

If your dog does exhibit aggression, it's best to seek the help of a professional dog trainer. They can assess the situation and develop a training plan to help your dog overcome their aggressive behaviors. In the meantime, be sure to keep your dog securely leashed and under control when around other people or animals. With patience, consistency, and proper training, your dog can learn to be less aggressive and more well-mannered.

Remember, every dog is unique and may exhibit different behaviors. It's essential to understand your dog's individual needs and work with them to overcome any behavioral challenges. With love, patience, and proper training, your first dog will become your family's best friend for years to come.